A New Book

Love Me
Love, Me

Live in love instead of living in fear — and you will find happiness, because happiness comes from within.

By Mahashwar
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I noticed something in the place where I had the least. On the hard days I counted what was missing. On the good days I counted what I had. Same walls. Same sky. Same food. The only variable was what I chose to count. So I tested it. I did it deliberately. I switched what I was counting. And everything changed.
The discovery that became this book
What's Inside

A road map back to yourself.
Written from the middle of the climb.

Most self-help books are written from the mountaintop. This one is written from the trail. Mahashwar is still in it — still walking two miles with a healing heart, still sorting the files, still learning what love asks of him every single day. That rawness is what makes this book different. Not theory. Not a system. A life, examined honestly, offered to you as a guide.

Part One
Finding Love in Yourself
  • What Is Love
  • Love Your Thoughts
  • Love Your Body
Part Two
Love in Every Language
  • Love Others
  • Words of Affirmation
  • Acts of Service
  • Receiving Gifts
  • Quality Time
  • Physical Touch
  • Solitude and Space ✦
  • Food as Love ✦
  • Costly Devotion ✦
Part Three
The Return
  • Know Yourself, Love Yourself
  • Loss of Love
  • Love the Planet
  • Conclusion

✦ Original love languages not found in any other book


You know the five.
Here are three more.

Gary Chapman's five love languages changed how millions of people see their relationships. This book honors that foundation and goes further — adding three original languages that Chapman's framework left out. Because the way you love is more expansive than anyone has given you credit for.

Chapman's Five
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts
Quality Time
Physical Touch
Three Original Additions
Solitude and Space
Food as Love
Costly Devotion
Each language is explored three ways: loving yourself, loving others, and loving your body.
If You Loved These Books

This one was written for you next.

The readers who found themselves in these books have found a next step in this one.

The Five Love Languages
Gary Chapman

Chapman showed you how others receive love. This book shows you how to give it to yourself first — and adds three languages he didn't include.

The Power of Now
Eckhart Tolle

Tolle gave you the platform. This book tells you what to do once you're standing on it — how to sort the files, choose your thoughts, and live from love.

You Are a Badass
Jen Sincero

Same honest voice. Same refusal to sugarcoat. This book brings that energy to the deepest question: what does it actually mean to love yourself?

The Four Agreements
Don Miguel Ruiz

Ruiz taught you to question the agreements you made about yourself. This book gives you a practice for rewriting the ones that no longer serve you.

The Secret
Rhonda Byrne

The Secret said thoughts become things. This book shows you how — through the body, the garden, the platform, and the choice to come from love over fear.

The Gifts of Imperfection
Brené Brown

Brown gave you permission to be enough. This book shows you what to build once you believe it — a life organized around love instead of fear.


Mahashwar

Mahashwar has been helping people his entire adult life. It started in 1982, as a first-time-offender internship while earning his AS degree. After his BS, he worked in a mental health center, then entered graduate study in Applied Behavior Analysis, teaching college psychology along the way. He spent thirteen years in human services across California and Florida, starting as a QMRP working directly with people with developmental disabilities, and rising to Administrator of residential care facilities. Since 2004 he has worked at the same software company, starting in technical support and growing into web development and software training. Across every chapter of that career, the work has been the same: meeting people where they are, and helping them find their way to something better. He lives in Orlando, close to his children.

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Live in love.
Not in fear.

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